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CT, United States
Married to Erik Spiegel since 12/21/02 & we have two children: Olivia 7 & Scott 4.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Fun in the Snow!!! Scott's 15 month check up

This was Scott's first time in the snow and only Olivia's 2nd time this season outside! So sad, I am terrible. Olivia went out sled riding with my mom and Marissa on Friday when school and work were canceled because of the snow storm and she had a blast. I bundled them up this afternoon and took them out for about an hour. Scott absolutely loved it but he would not stand up at all. He just crawled around as much as he could and played with the snow and mashed it all up. I pulled them around on the sled for a while until Scott tipped over in it and did a face plant in the snow. I was laughing so hard I couldn't pick him up! He didn't even cry though. He only threw a fit when we had to come inside.

Anyway, Scott had his 15 month check up on Friday. What an absolute NIGHTMARE experience that was. He was sooooooooooo bad. I was so not used to that. Olivia was always the best behaved child every time she had to go to the doctors. The doctor always commented on it too. I don't think Scott even sat on the table and they really didn't even do a "check up" because he wouldn't let anyone look at him or touch him. It took me 10 minutes to undress him so they could weigh him and we never really got an accurate weight reading because he was flipping out so much. He is about 22 and 1/2 pounds, slightly more but not much. Still 25th percentile for weight, 50th for height. I really thought he would weigh more than that since he eats NON stop. If he is awake, he is eating. Nothing like Olivia. He only says da da which they were a little concerned about, not too bad though. He should be saying about 5 words, but I explained to them that when he says da da, it's not that he is calling for daddy, he says bye bye as da da and waves, he says da da for night night, his cup is da da, etc, etc you get the picture. He also didn't know at least 2-3 body parts. But now that we worked on it all weekend after the appointment he knows where his nose, ears and eyes are and his belly. So we will get there. The doctor told me to have birth to 3 years come in and evaluate him if I thought it was necessary since "it's our tax dollars hard at work and they come into your home and it's free", but the doctor thinks he will turn the corner and be right on top for his next check up at 18mths. But seriously, isn't he a baby???? Why does he need to be doing all of these things?? I am so confused as to why babies are rushed into toddler hood. Why? Why do babies have to be off a bottle at 12 months? It's not like they are still going to be on a bottle at 5. Why 12 months? Anyway, Scott only gets one bottle still, his morning one. Which is huge for me since Olivia was on a bottle until 18 months by my choice b/c I think 12 months is absolutely ridiculous to have babies off the bottle. He is finally drinking from a sippy cup, so that is good. I am not having him evaluated, that is my decision. It will just make me stress out and freak that he is behind or something. Olivia was much more progressed at this age and she spoke in full sentences 3 months before she turned 2, but I keep having to check myself and tell myself that you can not compare. I can't even compare Scott to other children his age, you just can't. I think I will start Scott in some sort of daycare soon to socialize him and get himgoing with speech and such, but no way am I having him evaluated. He will do what he needs to do when he is ready. Oh, they also asked me if he could scribble on a piece of paper with crayons????? (WHATEVER!) And I said yes b/c I felt so stupid that I was saying no to everything else so I went out and bought these grasper crayons things for 12 mth olds and he just plays with it, he has no clue what to do with it. I don't think I ever gave Olivia a crayon at that age, but whatever. It is sooooooooooo ridiculous how doctors are now a days and how parents react to things. Just let your baby be a baby! Why rush them?

I just have to laugh...that's all I am going to say about that. He's my baby and will be a baby for as long as I can possibly keep him that way. Anyone who feels differently, please keep your opinion to yourself because you might get an earful from me if you decide to have this argument with me. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!

Tuesday, February 19, 2008

Promotion

I think most know, some I forgot to tell, some I told so long ago, I don't remember anymore...anywho, I received a promotion at work to manager. It only took 10 years to get there, LOL. I can't believe that I have been with the company for 10 years. It's funny to think how different my life was when I started at the age of 23. Happy Hour EVERY Friday with the same people, living in our awesome apartment, with awesome roommates on Franklin Street, having awesome nights downtown Danbury! LOL Wow, that is a lifetime ago since all of those gals that I hung out with then are now wives and moms!!!

Anyway, I started out as an associate consultant 10 years ago, moved to a client services consultant within that first year and when the stress got to me, I took on a different position for a little while when I got married and got pregnant with Olivia. I then got promoted to senior consultant, I think 2 years ago?? Not sure anymore, but I finally made the decision that I do this now or never, so I took the position for manager. It's strange because it is on the same account that I have been on for 7 years now, IBM. Our client is excited since I have worked so closely with them for the last 7 years, so that's a plus, I HOPE my team is excited since I have been there senior for the last 2 years. That may be a challenge for me, managing a team that once was pretty much peers, but we will see how things go. I may be kicking myself in the you know what in a few months since my last position really wasn't that stressful and I could leave the office at 5PM sharp with no hesitation or guilt...not so sure that will happen anymore! YIKES!

Wish me luck!

Monday, February 18, 2008

The Spiegel Cousins

Amanda emailed me some pics of the Scott, Sam and Olivia playing yesterday. Scott and Olivia went to Bestema and Papa's this weekend and we were supposed to go there yesterday to pick them up and see Sammy. Erik and I ended up being sick all weekend. I had a terrible fever that finally broke this morning. I was so upset because I hadn't seen Sam in a while, but Amanda took pictures for me and emailed them, so here are some pictures of The Spiegel cousins.

Thursday, February 14, 2008

Happy 5th Birthday Lindsey!

LaLa (I'm sorry, Lindsey) had her 5th birthday party on Sunday at her Gymnastics place (thank you Michelle for emailing me the pics since I forgot my camera!). It was the same place that the girls went to for the Halloween Party that Lindsey invited them to. They all had a blast with the gymnastics. Poor Olivia kept getting picked up by the coach and thrown around, but that's what happens when you are so little and the turtle of the bunch. Olivia wore these footless black leggings that I could have pulled up to her shoulders, so I had to put something over them so she wore these gray stretchie pants that were actually size 18 months! They were long shorts on her, but they fit her waist!!! She kills me.

Anyway, today is actually Lindsey's real birthday, so Happy Birthday and Happy Valentine's Day.

We have to give a Happy Birthday shout out today to Heidi!!! Sorry we didn't make it to Laura's tonight for dinner and cake but the kids are going to Bestema and Papa's tomorrow before I get home from work and I have to pack them up tonight! YIPPEE!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY EVERYONE!

Saturday, February 9, 2008

Happy 3rd Birthday Payton

Tom and Stefanie threw a great Princess party today for the little princess, Payton! I can't believe she is 3 years old already. The kids had such a great time today. Scott was all over the place, going in and out of the ball pit. He thought that was great. He actually starting walking around towards the end of the party once he got used to his surroundings. He finally started walking on Thursday at Michelle's house because he had to keep up with his girlfriend Bella! :) So cute! He had been taking steps every once in a while for almost 2 months now, so it's about time he finally start walking!

Happy Birthday Payton!